Trauma-Sensitive Mindfulness

As regular readers know, I regularly utilize mindfulness both in my personal and professional life.   It is often a beneficial practice for people with health conditions as it allows us to attend to the present when our minds get pulled into the past or the future.   However, mindfulness exercises are not always positive.  For trauma survivors, some of the common practices, such as meditation, can exacerbate post-traumatic stress and and create feelings of shame and distress.   David Treleaven is a trauma professional and a mindfulness practitioner…

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Between Two Lines

I have a new recommendation for those of you who live with diabetes or care for someone with diabetes.   Levi is a man living with Type 1 diabetes who shares helpful videos and posts about life with Type 1.  He has a great balance of humour and hope that is relatable to many of us who navigate the ups and downs of diabetes. I invite you to explore his offerings: Between Two Lines Instagram YouTube  

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Calm Presence

In the midst of the current world situation, it can be a challenge to maintain the usual routines and strategies that soothe us.  Be kind to yourself and those you love - we will get through this and it will end.  It is understandable if you are finding it difficult to manage your mental health - we don't have a template for what is going on and uncertainty is hard for all humans.  For some tips and tools, I like the resources and offerings shared here:…

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Support for Self-Compassion

Throughout 2019, the theme on this blog (and my life) has been self-compassion. It's an important topic for those of us with health conditions as too often we feel our struggles are a burden to others and we neglect to offer ourselves the love and nurture we need. This road can be a hard one and it's okay to acknowledge the struggle as we continue to live lives based on values and meaning This focus started off in January with a link outlining the scientific benefits…

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Book Recommendation: Lost Connections

A colleague recommended this book and I now pass on the suggestion to you, my readers.  It is a fascinating exploration of depression and anxiety from a socio-cultural lens.  I learned a lot and many themes resonated with my personal experiences and those of the clients I serve.  It seems that we might need to rethink our assumptions about the causes of these conditions and to develop new ways of approaching treatment. Lost Connections - Johann Hari  

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Recommended Reading – The Artist’s Way

The Artist's Way is a well-known and well-respected book and course for cultivating creativity in our lives.  I love how this book walks you through a framework that allows a personalized exploration of what art and creativity mean to you and how you can expand on those experiences.  This is a valuable tool - art and creativity can be essential practices in processing our emotional lives - both celebrating the positives and working with the challenges. Countless others have expressed appreciation for Julia Cameron's work and how it helped them to reconnect…

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Recommended Reading – The Mindful Way Through Depression

Anyone who knows me knows of my belief in the benefit and power of mindfulness. Today I direct you to the book that began my own exploration of mindfulness.  Many years ago, I attended a Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) group that utilized this book and it really did change my life.  I learned tools to become more self-compassionate and to experience greater engagement and presence in my life.  Of course, I still need to discipline to practice or these lessons elude me! I recommend checking out The Mindful Way Through…

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Recommended Reading – The Gift of Fear

  This month's recommended reading is new to me, but not new to the world.  Gavin De Becker is a security specialist and he published the first version of this book in 1997.  My mother suggested it to me a few months ago; I hesitated to read it at first, but in the end found the information quite valuable. It is a surprising page turner that offers insight into how we can avoid trauma and violence by paying attention to the warning signs around us.  I worried at first…

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Recommended Reading – How To Be Sick

Recently, I was fortunate to learn of the author Toni Bernhard and her inspiring works on chronic illness. Ms. Bernhard writes from a Buddhist perspective on practices that she has found helpful in dealing with her own sudden and debilitating chronic condition.  She writes with compassion for her own situation and a beautiful grace regarding her current limitations.  A grace that she acknowledges has taken her time and consistent effort to achieve.  A grace that still fluctuates. If you are looking for a resource on some new ideas…

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Recommended Reading – Light Reading

In keeping with the August theme of vacation and relaxation, my recommended reading for this month is to take time for something light and non-work, non-health related. Pick something easy that is already on your bookshelf and you have been "meaning to" get to for awhile!  This is an opportunity to take a break from the heavier tomes of the rest of the year and allow yourself to enjoy the ones you keep putting off because you have "more important" things to read.  Taking time to read something purely…

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